﻿Day 6

Subject: Stop caring what other people think, [firstname]

Hi [firstname],

I'm the first person to admit that some people don't like me very much. And you know what? I don't care! Some people don't like the way I look or dress. Other people don't share my opinions. Many people think I'm an awkward so-and-so because I don't fit into their view of what I “should” be or do.

My attitude to all that is: Tough, get over it!

It didn't used to be that way.  I used to be a real people pleaser.  I said “yes” to everything and developed a reputation for being a real pushover. It was hard to tell where other people ended and I began. My decisions were based on what I thought would make other people happy or comfortable. I thought this made me easygoing, likable, and generally pretty cool.

In truth it made me just the opposite. People took advantage of my (supposedly) good nature. 

The upshot was that I was miserably unhappy. I was despised and disrespected. Nobody valued me for who I was, just what they could get out of me. I had no self respect whatsoever.

One day I took a good look at my self in the mirror and I didn't like what I saw.  I knew that if I was going to be the best version of myself (the one I was meant to be) I had to make some changes fast. 

So I took the conscious decision that from now on I was going to be the real [Your Name] and if people didn't like it they knew where they could stick it!

And you know what?

While some people became really hostile, others began to respect me more.  They valued my opinions just like I respected (but didn't always agree with) theirs. 

The same is true for you: Your real friends will accept you for who you really are; and if they don't, they're not really your friends.

Warmly,

[Your Name]

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